Couples Purity Test
Couples at any stage who want a structured way to compare what they have actually done together. Scored the second you finish.
Fifty questions about the two of you, two points each, starting from 100. Take it separately and compare the numbers: the gap usually says more than either score, because it shows which milestones one of you counted and the other forgot. Nothing is stored against your name — only the score is submitted.
- 50 questions, about 4 minutes
- No signup, no email
- Only your score is sent — answers stay in your browser unless you tick the box
Before you start
The last block asks plainly about sex between the two of you, so this version is written for partners 18 and over. 6 of the 50 statements are explicit about sex or drug use.
Under 18? Take the Teen Purity Test instead — same scoring, with the explicit items removed.
Check every statement you have done. Leave the rest blank — unanswered counts as no.
Online & modern lifeQuestions 1–1
Romance & datingQuestions 2–2
Online & modern lifeQuestions 3–3
Romance & datingQuestions 4–29
Online & modern lifeQuestions 30–30
Romance & datingQuestions 31–32
Online & modern lifeQuestions 33–34
Parties & nightlifeQuestions 35–35
Alcohol & drugsQuestions 36–38
Parties & nightlifeQuestions 39–39
Law & consequencesQuestions 40–40
Rule-breaking & mischiefQuestions 41–41
Law & consequencesQuestions 42–42
Rule-breaking & mischiefQuestions 43–43
Romance & datingQuestions 44–44
Sexual experienceQuestions 45–50
How the score works
You start at 100. Every statement you check costs 2 points.
There is no weighting and no hidden algorithm: 50 statements, 2 points each, 100 minus what you checked. Check every one and you finish on 0. Check nothing and you keep the full 100. A low number means more of the list has happened to you, not that you did anything wrong.
What the number does not measure: it counts experiences you have had, so it says nothing about your character, your values, your health or how good a partner, friend or student you are.
What the 50 statements cover
- Romance & dating30
- Sexual experience6
- Online & modern life5
- Alcohol & drugs3
- Parties & nightlife2
- Law & consequences2
- Rule-breaking & mischief2
The nine bands
Every whole number has its own page.
- UntouchedNothing on the list applied. That is the ceiling of the test.100
- Pure SoulOne to five items checked out of a hundred.95–99
- Mostly InnocentSix to fifteen items checked.85–94
- CuriousSixteen to thirty items checked.70–84
- Average ExplorerThirty-one to forty-five items checked — the middle of the scale.55–69
- ExperiencedForty-six to sixty items checked — about half the list.40–54
- Wild CardSixty-one to seventy-five items checked.25–39
- VeteranSeventy-six to ninety items checked.10–24
- Off the ChartsNinety-one to a hundred items checked — the floor of the test.0–9
Three other versions of the same idea
Same arithmetic, different question lists. Each one is scored and stored separately, so your results do not mix.
Rice Purity Test
Adults 18 and over who want the full, unedited 100-item list.
100 questionsTeen Purity Test
Students aged 13-17, and anyone who wants the version without the adult questions.
50 questionsInnocence Test
Anyone who wants a life-experience score they can compare at a family dinner.
100 questionsQuestions people actually ask
How do two people take this test together?
Open it on separate phones, answer all 50 statements without looking at each other's screen, then put the two numbers side by side. Answering in the same room but on your own device is the point: reading the list out loud changes what people admit to. Comparing which sections moved your scores is more interesting than comparing the totals.
What does a big gap between our scores mean?
Usually memory rather than disagreement. Every statement asks about the two of you, so in principle both scores should match; each box is worth two points, which means a 20-point gap is ten milestones one of you counted and the other did not. The common causes are vague items — what counts as a trip, an argument, a proper date — and one partner reading a statement as 'we planned this' where the other reads 'this happened to us'. Go back to the statements you scored differently; that list is the useful output.
Does it ask about anything we did before we met?
No. All 50 statements begin with "Have you two", so the list only counts things the pair of you have done together — nothing either of you did with anyone else appears anywhere in it, and neither of your scores can be lowered by an ex. For the personal version, take the 100-question test separately and compare those two numbers instead.
Is this a compatibility test?
It is not, and it has never been validated as one. What it does well is give you a neutral list of subjects to react to, which is easier than starting the conversation cold. Couples usually get more out of the items they hesitated over than out of the final numbers.
Should we tell each other the answers, not just the score?
Only as far as both of you want to. The single number is the safe version: it reveals how much of the list you have covered without naming any of it. Agree before you start whether you are sharing totals only or going through items, so nobody is put on the spot after the fact.
After the number
Every score, explained
101 pages, one per whole number, with the bands and the questions that usually separate a 62 from a 58.
Live statistics
The distribution of scores submitted here, updated as people finish — no borrowed averages from other sites.
Writing on the test
Where the questionnaire came from, how the scoring shifted online, and what the numbers do and do not say.